Hi there
ive just been to have my smear test, my Last one was 3 years ago, and the same thing has happened on both... the bloody nurse couldn’t find my cervix! She tried getting me to rest my hands under my bum to try and find it but that didn’t do anything. She insereted and re inserted the instrument a few times and there was plenty of digging around but she failed to find it. :( when I entered I was so full of hope too as she said they no longer use the metal things anymore, they are plastic so it’s easier....well apparently not for me ...
I don’t know if it’s inexperience of the nurse?, although she’s the same one I had the last time, or if it’s my body?, either way I can’t help but leave in tears. As the apt was early there was no dr available to help (which is what the nurse needed 3 years ago) so now I have to go back on Xmas Eve! I’m dreading it. I don’t want the same thing to happen every time I go for a smear, it makes me not want to go.
also when I go on Xmas Eve it will be a week before I’m due on my period, I’ve heard this is the worst time to go? Is this true? I’m only 5,7 and I’ve heard height can be a factor in having a “hidden” as my nurse likes to call it, cervix, but surely that can’t be the case? I never want to avoid the smear test because I know how important they are, but when it seems to be as difficult and frustrating as mine, I can’t help but not want to go.
Ive read previous posts about this before and it gives me some hope that I’m not the only women to go through this. It does help and makes me feel a lot better. Otherwise I can’t help to come out of the Drs feeling upset, and frustrated. I just hope the dr finds it easy next time, but I have my doubts. :(