Hello,
I am 25 years old and had my first smear in November 2023. The results came back showing high-risk HPV infection and abnormal cell changes. Nobody actually tells you about HPV growing up so I had no clue what this meant. I spoke to the mums at work and quite a few had received the same letter but said it would just be a quick biopsy to have a more in depth check and then everything will be fine.
I went to a coloscopy on 1st December 2023 and before I was even looked at I was told by the doctor that I had precancerous cells and would require LLETZ treatment. At this point my head fell off. I have also had the HPV vaccine in school so I was not sure why this was happening. She made it very clear that it wasn’t cancer but if left untreated there is a high chance the cells would turn cancerous so I agreed to the treatment there and then. After examining my cervix she could see the abnormal cells covered most of my cervix and I had CIN3 so she did the treatment and then I was told I would have a follow up appointment in 6 months. No details were mentioned about this follow up appointment or why I had to have it so I just took it as a check up and to make sure they had got all the cells.
I came out of the coloscopy feeling extremely overwhelmed and unsure as to what had just happened. However, after a few weeks I felt more positive because at least the cells had been found, I had been treated and, at this point, I was under the impression that the treatment had got rid of the cells and the infection and that was the end of everything. Other women I spoke to would say ‘at least you have been treated and it’s done now’. So I continued to live my normal life.
I went through the normal 4 week healing process and then was fine. However in February 2024 I bled quite heavily for two weeks. I have been on contraception for 9 years and not had a period so I was worried as to why I was bleeding. I had a tummy ultrasound and a vaginal ultrasound privately and thankfully the doctor confirmed that the bleeding was because I had been on progesterone for too long and nothing to do with the LLETZ treatment and my cervix had healed well.
We then got onto the conversation of HPV because I asked him if he could still see any of the abnormal cells. He replied that ‘he wouldn’t be able to see any abnormal cells as this can only be done under a microscope at your 6 month follow up when they check and swab you to see if your immune system has fought off the HPV’. It was only at this point I realised that the LLETZ treatment might not be the ‘end of everything’. I asked the doctor what would happen if you can’t fight the infection to which he replied ‘we don’t need to discuss that right now’. From reading online, I now understand that you can only have so many LLETZ treatments before having to have a full hysterectomy? I am now back to constantly worrying as I am 25 with no kids.
I get that doctors don’t want to worry but I feel like I am still not getting full details about this infection and learning about it as I am going through it instead of already being aware.
Question 1:
Does anybody have any positive experiences of having CIN3 and having LLETZ treatment and it actually clearing the infection?
I understand it to have a high success rate but then I read on here of women having multiple LETZ treatments and the infection still not clearing.
Question 2:
I really need the advice of women who are married or in a long-term relationship.
I have been seeing a guy throughout this whole process. I had sex with him before the LLETZ treatment and sex with him after the LLETZ treatment (thinking the treatment had cured everything).
I have read online that if you have HPV it is highly likely that your partner will have the same strain of HPV. In 90% of cases this is fine because their immune systems will just naturally fight it but in my case that clearly won’t happen.
I firstly feel worried because I might have infected him. However he is 29 years old so may have already had and fought off the strain of HPV I had/have. Should he have caught the infection, his immune system may just fight it off naturally.
I am more concerned that there is a possibility that he could have caught the HPV infection from me, I have then had the LETZ treatment and then he could have reinfected me, to which my immune system can’t fight the infection off naturally.
Are there any ladies who are married or in long-term relationships that are happy to share how they approach having sex with their partner after treatment for CIN3, knowing that their partner will likely have the same strain of HPV that your immune system struggles to fight off and can cause your cells to change?
Is there anything you actually can do or do you just carry on as normal?
This may sound dramatic but I feel like I can’t have sex with him again or anybody else in the future.
Thank you so much for any advice you can give me!