I know, how hard the time waiting for results is - I‘m very lucky, I only had to wait one week for the results of the conisation and my gyn even called me on a saturday as I worried soooo much.
I assume we have the virus for decades (maybe laying dormant) and during pregnancy (two pregnancies in a short time in my case) as well as other mental stress, it was easy for HPV to develope further or changes that have been there speed up as the immune system is weak.
The „funny“ thing is, I was thinking about having a private colposcopy/biopsy last year when HPV was detected for the very first time - I was really worried in the beginning. But then I read almost everything I could find plus all the infos here in the Forum and I was sure, the virus is just active due to the weak immune system, but without and cell changes as all the smears came back clear. I had many blood tests and took plenty of supplements and vitamins, spent lots of money. And I had three smears in 18 months (to have some Kind of reassurance) and all came back clear - I did reseach how it can be, that smears come back all clear but in the end just a few weeks later the results of the conisation (LEEP) turn out to be a carcinoma in situ.
My hypothesis, why the smear hasn‘t shown any changes: the HPV virus is in the basall cells and not on the surface of the mucous membrane what I have thought all the time. Changes start down in the basall cells and then go up to the „surface“ and maybe the thickness or solidity of the mucous membrane varies from women to women and sometimes the cell changes haven‘t come to the surface yet.
The LEEP with anesthesia was easy to manage for me, I didn‘t have any issues.
In the end all this doesn‘t matter - the point is the immune system. I booked the next smear + HPV test in three months. In case I‘m still HPV positive, I would consider a Hysterektomie as I don‘t want to worry all the time. But the regular procedure in Germany would be another LEEP if cell changes occur again.
In case HPV is gone, I might consider regular smears and HPV testing as the risk in this area is almost gone, when the HPV infection was „catched“ by the LEEP.
Maybe your pain, discharge etc. comes from the biopsy or did you have all the Symptoms before?
I assume when biopsy results show CIN 3 then it should be it or maybe the same result I had, which normally can be fully removed with LEEP.
The time waiting for the LEEP results was the worst time I had in my entire life. I can totally understand how you feel, especially with this scenario and having children you are responsible for and want the best for them.
All the best for both of you, try to think positive as invasive cancer is still rare and CIN 3/ carcinoma in situ is much more often detected and fully curable.