So I know exactly who gave this to me and in the beginning, I was SO angry at them, but now I am just sad, and scared, and now I feel I can’t really trust anyone in any intimate way. I was dating a guy back in 2021 and after several weeks of dating, talking, and stuff, we decided to sleep together. The condom broke. Something wasn’t right so I went to the gyno due to itching, and I was diagnosed with BV literally within the week. Well, when I told him what happened he ADMITTED he had a different girlfriend he had been hooking up with whom I might have gotten it from. And a day later he calls to tell me she admitted to having cervical cancer a few years prior and that she had a hysterectomy but since then gets BV constantly and they never used condoms together. I was so angry that I cut him off and have never spoken to him since. I also haven’t had a partner since.
Well, I was treated and the gyno had said I was clear, but a year later in Oct of 2022 I was diagnosed with HPV 53 (Probable high risk) with LSIL CIN1 at my annual pap. Since I am overseas I have panicked, cried, and tried with fail to get clear information. The gyno here speaks English, but told me that it usually clears up on it own in 2 years without needing to do anything. A spark of hope. She followed that up with the information that I would need a pap every 3 months to monitor. I asked her if there was ANY thing I could take, and she sold me some vitamins, and said they may help, but mostly it takes time. She also recommended the HPV shot series, which I agreed to as I was scared. (They are expensive which sucks)
3 months later ( Jan 20th) I went in for a check, and when the results came back it was WORSE. Now I have HPV 53 (probable high risk), 61 (Low risk), as well as 45 (high risk). I was devastated, and numb. The doc asked if I had any new partners and I said no. So now she thinks I had them the first time, but they just didn’t present at the time. I have gone online and I bought a few vitamins that have reviews for helping clear stubborn HPV, but I worry they will not do a thing but act as a placebo.
I am coming up on my next appt in April and a part of me is terrified that it will lead to another biopsy and come back worse. My closest friends know what happened and have been pretty supportive, however, I still just feel so numb inside and try to ignore it the best I can.
I am just confused how after a year of not knowing I had it, how I went from 1 hpv type to 3. Despite my gyno doing her best to calm my anxiety, I still have the anxiety of what the Next test will show.