Failed Smear Attempts - what now?

Cervical screening (smear test)
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Hello all,

I am 27 and have just failed to have my 2nd attempt at having a smear sample taken today. I have previously had 1 successful smear a few years ago but even that was a traumatic painful experience.

I have tried taking paracetamol before the appointment and breathing exercises to help me relax before going in. I don’t feel particulary stresseed or tense before the appointment. The nurse I have been seeing has been fantastic and supportive - ordered me the smallest speculum for the 2nd attempt and booked me in for the beginning of the day so less time to worry about it but still I cannot tolerate the speculum as it causes me immense pain which as soon as I feel that pain it causes me to tense and prevent the test going forward no matter how much I tell myself to relax.

We have spoken about seeing if the GP will prescribe Valium or similar to help relaxation but without preventing that pain from the speculum I fear it will just lead to another failed attempt each of which affects my mental health - I leave every test attempt in tears as I feel I am broken somehow. For context I don’t use tampons either as those cause too much discomfort to insert.

If anyone can offer any tips or advice on how I can proceed or if they’ve been in a similar situation it would be much appreciated as I currently feel very alone in this.

Thank you!

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All to be referred to colposcopy unit rather than having it done in your Dr’s. I sometimes struggle with speculum and I think bedstraw they literally use speculums day on and out its not as bad. They have also offered me gas and air when it’s been particularly painful to help.

I now go there for all my smears.

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Hey!

No advice, (sorry!) but just to say I’ve had my first smear today and it was unsuccessful due to pain. Pleased to hear you have a supportive nurse who has tried to help you, I’m seeing a lot of other women mention the coloscopy following a difficult smear.

I left my appointment in tears too and feel like a total failure - even though rationally I know that’s a silly thing to think! You’re not alone in your fear and the impact on your mental health is really valid. I hope you can find a solution that makes this experience easier! x