We have got so much going on in our lives right now that the recent health scare is tipping us over the edge. Instead of it being a loving home enviroment it is like a war zone. I try to talk to my partner but he just can't cope with it. He thinks that i am attacking him and causing arguments when all i am trying to do is get my needs heard, it seems stupid really. I just asked today for a bit more affection from my partner and he said ''what will it be tomorrow''...... i felt hurt by that and it ended up in us nearly splitting up again!!!. It seems to be that the recent combination of events and quite a few stressful things is tipping us both over. I take on the majority of stress in the relationship and yet he still can't cope, he can't cope with anything. What can i do?. We are supposed to be getting married!!!! not falling apart.