I had my first smear test today and if wasn't very good. I was in so much pain that the nurse thought it best not go through with it after two attempts. I told my mum and she asked if I had ever penatritive sex. I told her no and she said maybe that was why it was so painful.
My (recent) girlfriend and I had sex, but whenever she used to go inside me with her fingers it would be uncomfortable and a bit sore, so when we had sex we would go down on each other and I would penetrate her because she didn't find it painful. I'm now wondering if because I've never had penatritive sex and never used tampons, could this be why it was so painful?
Apologies for oversharing on some of the details. Admins, please feel free to censor if not appropriate.
Thank you in advance for any advice, comments or stories, I appreciate it.