I'm so sorry you're going through this; I completely understand why you're so worried. You're right that a growth can be explained by things other than cancer, so try not to get ahead of herself (although I know that's easier said than done). However, am I to understand from what you've said that you've been put forward on a standard referral, rather than an urgent referral? You should have been put down for an urgent referral if there is a growth that size on your cervix and you've been getting symptoms. An urgent referral will get you seen within a fortnight. If you think you have been put forward as this, then ring the hospital to chase the appointment. If you think you haven't, then ring your GP and get her to ring the hospital to change the referral to urgent. I am not saying any of this because I think you've got CC or because I'm trying to scare you - I can't possibly know what the growth is - but I do know you should be on an urgent referral, so if I was you I'd start kicking up a bit of a fuss!
Try not to beat yourself up about how you're feeling at the moment; I am sure you're a brilliant mum and you've got no reason to feel guilty about your daughter. Try and give yourself a bit of a break - you've got a lot on your plate.
I completely understand your fear, but the main thing is now that whatever this is, you've got the ball rolling in terms of getting it sorted out. Lots of us on here know how awful the waiting can be, and how much your mind can just go into overdrive in that space between now and the appointment. Try and keep reminding yourself that you've done the right thing. I know you're exhausted and have had enough, but please do try and get pushy about your appointment - you need this sorted pronto - and doing this may help you feel a bit more in control of the situation as well.
Let us know how you get on.
Love, Annabel. x