My name is "Mr Worried". I am 26 (m) and Uk my wife is 25 (f) uk.
We married last year, my wife had her first smear teast not 2 months ago... Results came back and she had CIN3 high risk dyskosis. She was set an urgent appt and had I believe an Lletz ? ( Edited to add it could of been colpocopsy )treatment carried out. I went with her (not into the room) and she said that when the liqquid was used on her cervix there was a small area about the size of a 5p "white" and her nurse/doctor removed all that he could see. He said that she would recieve results through the post within 6 weeks !!
Six weeks to me is disgusting, she cannot concentrate on anything for fear of the results, we dont have children yet ( we were activley trying)and she would be the most fantastic mother. She is brilliant with kids and as is most ladies express it is her biggest desire to have children.
We are now about two weeks after the initiall lletz treatment, and they (the hospital clinic) has gone to the extreme lengths of contacting her at work to try get her for an appt " as soon as possible to discuss the recent results" We have a holiday next week which this will now impact upon massivley. (Not that it worries me her mental health is my main concern right now)
She rang me at work to tell me this not an hour ago... I'm terrified. The thought that she might have "it"scares the shite out of me....losing her would be unimaginable and I have a huge lump in my throat just talking about it.... Thats not even mentioning the fact that it going to have a massive impact on our ability to have children she would be more than heartbrokedn to find out she cant have kids.... I think it would destroy her.
I know deep down that they would not call unless the results are in a negative frame.
I need help advice from someone. has anyone been in the same situation and had good news or not terrible news....
Please ladies. Help me to help her.