how do you tell your family the bad news?!

Hi Hun, how did they find out u had CC was it from your smear and biopsy

Hey. All I have had is a smear

so got it in to my head it must be

really really bad if my dr can

just tell from that :( xx

Well all I can say is it's never clear cut until you know everything. I had wrong biopsy and was told to come back in six months then got a letter saying come in now. I had breast cancer treatment last year and it was stage 3 grade 3 so not so good. I have finished treatment and got the all clear but still worry like the next person. If I were you I would wait till you know for sure before telling half a story. Maybe tell a friend you are worried about the test and leave it at that. If it is cancer you will be able to deal with it, it's amazing how strong we are most cancer patients have a saying " don't f**k with me Cancer you won't win" be strong I know it's hard xxx

Thats what I keep telling

myself but at the same time

think he surly wouldn't be able to 

tell me that if he didnt know for definate.

glad you have got the all clear ajd hope

in a few months time I will be sayimg

the same thing :) xx

Keep us updated even if you want to let off steam. Worry, stress, anger, fear is not good for our bodies. Take care I will be thinking of you. Xx

Aww thank you... means alot :)

Think I have been on here 

more than facebook these

last few days haha xx

I've had a similar thing happen to me.  I went to the dr as I was abnormal bleeding approx 10 months I had a baby in January, and the dr basically said there and then it looks like cervical cancer.  I went to be checked in gynacology yesterday and the lead colposcopy consultant ended up coming in and taking biopsy. I'm also like you, not nieve. I know it's cancer just they cannot diagnose until results of biopsy are back. Marius also booked for next week and chest X-ray.  I hopewe are both wrong but being realistic I know I've got it.  I wish you all the luck and keep us all postedim on this every night trying to find out more. Good luck with everything xxx

Thank you for taking

the time to reply. Its a horrible

situation to be in isnt it.

it still doesnt feel real to me at 

the moment think that is because

I feel fine in myself just having 

days when I dont know what to

do with myself.

I just hope I dont have to be in hospital

over christmas.

I hope everything goes ok for you :)

and I am sure soon when we know 

whats going on we will be able to 

talk more.

xxx

 

Thank you for taking

the time to reply. Its a horrible

situation to be in isnt it.

it still doesnt feel real to me at 

the moment think that is because

I feel fine in myself just having 

days when I dont know what to

do with myself.

I just hope I dont have to be in hospital

over christmas.

I hope everything goes ok for you :)

and I am sure soon when we know 

whats going on we will be able to 

talk more.

xxx