I am new to this site but I have been reading all of your post.
i was diagnosed with cc in December 2014 Stage1 b2
And after having my cat scan and MR I scan and nothing shows that it has spread so I was very happy about that but then they said I would have to have a radical hystracterme and the removal of my lymph nodes but that would mean I would never be able to have children. This news was very upsetting for me and my parter as we are only 30 and do not have any children yet.
When I went for my pre op appointment I found out I was pregnant I was very early only 3 weeks but due to this the operation was cancelled which was gonna be the 9th January 2015.
I don't think my consultant was happy about my news but to me it felt like it was a gift in a strange way as this will be my only chance to have a baby.
For the last few weeks I have been going back and forth to the hospital which I hate because I feel like every time I go there I feel like I'm fighting them as the wanted me to get rid of the baby I have already told them i would like to try to keep the baby. So on the 26th January was suppose to have consultation about cemo but when I attended this appointment nothing was said about this treatment option. Instead they said they want to remove my lymph nodes when I'm in my second stage of my pregnancy to check if the cancer has spread, but they told me if I have this operation and my lymph nodes come back negative I will have to get rid of the baby. This really did up set me because I will be about 13/15 weeks and to be honest I don't know how I would feel about that. So they told me if I want to continue with the pregnancy there is no point to do this operation, I don't know what to do with my self I think I have the Wright to know if it has spread. nothing came up on my X rays to say that it has spread but they have told me the X rays are not 100% all the treatment is experimental as they have only have 12 cases like this before.
I'm sorry I went on a bit but no one knows what I'm going through so any advice or support would be wonderful