Men don’t transmit it. That’s why there’s no test for men. Any woman can have cervical cancer, including those who have never had sex. I know the (male dominated) gynaecology establishment does like to promote the idea that it is caused by sex, also adding the fact you’re more at risk the more sexual partners you have and the younger you were when you first had sex but actually that’s rubbish. It’s yet more “blame women culture” claptrap. How do they know? Where are the figures??
I not only know several women who have had CC despite never having had sex with a man (and in one case never had sex at all) but also don’t know a single person who has ever been asked how old they were when they first had sex or how many sexual partners they have had. So where does this idea that it’s caused by having sex come from?
Woman are blamed for most of their own problems in life, including their physical and mental ill health, relationship problems, criminality, housing, poverty, poor education and other social problems as infinitum.
Please don’t blame your boyfriend. And if you don’t want to have sex at the minute, don’t. It’s the last thing on most CC sufferers’ minds surely.
I hope your boyfriend is supportive, as that’s what you need right now and if he isn’t then you don’t need him.