It's been a very hard year for me (and family)
My son (33) was hit by a car and passed away (Oct 12 2014)
Had arguments with my mother and then she got sick and I was out of town and lost her (they transfered her from one hospital to another and only told me she was relesed) I ended up putting her in a group home.
Found a lump about the size of a pea and got refurred to someone
My mother passed away (she was 94) the same time I found out I had cancer.
Had a radical hysterectomy and radio & chemo.
My daughter stayed with me while I had radio & chemo and come to stay with me at home (I was out of country when I did the stuff for cancer)
My husband was working. (someone has to pay the bills) Perhaps I should explain that he works in Nigeria and no body gets treaded here if they can go someplace else
My daughter went home yesterdasy. She was my constant companion for 3 months. Well she does have her own children.
Sometimes I feel my husband is insensitive. Today he said he wants a salad for dinner. That's nice. What will I eat. Still having trouble with fiber. (just started cooking vegg less)
He was wonderful in getting my daughter to me and taking care of things (poor guy, same time all this happened his 93 yr mother fell and broke 3 ribs. He went to take care of things with her for a couple weeks) Just sometines I feel he does not understand how I feel or that things he say hurt my feelings.
I am trying to take care of the side effects. Though some are easier then others. (like my ankes swell. but I put the socks on)
Right now I fell a bit lost and not sure about the next 5 years of doctor visits. Seems like things just kept going wrong this last year.
Sorry so long just had some kvetching to do