I'm not at all sure that an orgasm has too much effect on the cervix, as long as it's your orgasm and nobody else's ;-) I expect that the abstention from penetrative sex is all about the bouncing around and things getting boshed about. I would imagine that a bit of flicking the bean is harmless, and probably great for morale.
I don't honestly know, but I am 3 and a half weeks after a cone biopsy and if I do become aroused it hurts in my stomach. Apparently that's fine, as when you become aroused the uterus and therefore cervix move.
Just kissing my partner is setting off awful stomach cramps. It is getting less painful but I don't think I'd want to risk an orgasm just yet
Ooh, that sounds unpleasant, hope it settles down soon for you. It's been 16 days since my treatment and I still haven't risked it! No signs of infection but I just don't feel right!