Hello cloud dog, I am so sorry that you sister finds herself in this position, she is fortunate to have a sister who is so concerned about her. Stage 1cc is usually very curable & hopefully there is no spread. May I suggest (if you don't mind me doing so) that you contact McMillan services , they are very helpful, & tell them of your sister's issues with alcohol & self harm. This is a huge worry for you to cope with alone. I will pray for both of you in the days to come & send all best wishes & warm thoughts. Take as much care of you as is possible in this difficult time & keep us posted. Xx
I just want to wish you and your sister every ounce of strength and support. You must be a truly wonderful sister to have! I echo what Celtic Girl says about Macmillan - fabulous people!
another Macmillan fan here! My cancer nurse organised some counselling for me which began within a week and was very valuable. I have stopped as I had my surgery but planning to go back as soon as possible. Do ask.