Its not just you - some things that I used to deal with really easy now seem impossible ....... and I dont think I have ever cried so much and without any real reason. It is pants, but you aren't alone xx
We are moving as well - I have 3 months though to get everything sorted so Im hoping I will cope ok
No it's not just you. I cannot do things the way I used to. At some point I was looking at the dishes trying to think of a way to wash them up!?!?!?!
Healing takes time and sometimes it can take longer than we expect but it's really ok. We have been through a lot. We are tired and we most definitely need time. Don't be such a harsh judge of yourself! I am sure you are doing great. Just take things slowly and you'll make it!
I'm so sorry you're feeling like this. To be perfectly honest with you, I suspect this is a hormone (lack of) sort of issue because I remember having total mental blank-outs even before I was diagnosed but just beginning to be menopausal (probably). Standing stock still gazing at nothing at all, sometimes teary and completely unable to function. A little over a year after diagnosis I was in desperate need of counselling and found myself a wonderful woman who used a system called CBT. I was highly skeptical about this method but by golly it worked! It has worked on every single aspect of my life/identity and I just don't seem to have these 'hormonal' ditherings any longer. Might be worth a shot?
They do say of course that moving house is one of the biggest stresses in life, along with marriage, bereavement and losing your job. previously every time you have moved house has it been your choice? And not forced upon you? That might make a huge difference to how you cope with it emotionally.
