Oh my goodness. This article is a must read for anyone trying to deal with the emotional aftermath of a cancer diagnosis after the busy business of treatment dies down and you're trying to work out what to do next.
I know I have posted links to a few articles and things, but if you're only going to try one, this is the one to read.
It's a bit long but the author is an experienced cancer counsellor and he really understands what we are going through and this article normalises it to a large extent. I think it's incredibly reassuring to see that there is a logical progression through all this to a 'new normal'.